opinions please, driving myself batty!

Mae1220 · Apr 27, 2021

Hi new here, just driving myself crazy in this not knowing stage I’m in currently.
So just a little back story when I was pregnant with my DD I found out feb 2nd, December 25th before that I was on my period (not a normal it was very light very little to no cramping) I ended up getting a migraine and puking ect found out a month later basically I was prego.
Fast forward to now I had a light very little cramping period the 9th of april to the 13th. The last week or so I have had light cramping thick stretchy odorless clear white discharge for the last 3or 4 days (which I’m aware clear discharge can be just ovulation which would have been around the same time however, it’s been multiple days and that for me is abnormal usually if I see it it’s just the day I ovulate and then it’s done) I’m nauseous my back aches my thighs feel like I’m going to start my period any minute I’m have light cramping a majority of the day and of course the discharge. I’ve taken 3 tests all of them the first response brand all 3 negative. I will test again next week considering period is due next Friday. What do y’all think? Thank you for any input

WaterLilly · Apr 27, 2021

Welcome Mae1220!

Do you know roughly when you ovulated? If your period ended around April 13th, I would assume you ovulated around the week of April 20th to 25th. That means you may only be in the first week of the TWW. (Assuming the information I gave matches up!)

In the meantime, I just got by BFP and I had the same kid of mucus you had shortly after O-day. About 4 days from my expected period, it turned to a yellowing/white clumpy texture and stayed like that right up until my expected period date.

Wishing you lots of luck!!!

Mae1220 · Apr 27, 2021

Thank you for the welcome & response!!
Yesss my ovulation week was the 18th - 24th ( I use the Flo app, diligently for years)
I am definitely in the TWW, today I’ve had light cramping, a little clear discharge, mild pain in both hips & full blown nausea/sour feeling stomach...
I’m trying to keep myself chill & not get my hopes up, it’s difficult especially when I’m sitting around feeling sick & cramping all day!
& congratulations on your BFP!

WaterLilly · Apr 29, 2021

Mae1220 said:
Thank you for the welcome & response!!
Yesss my ovulation week was the 18th - 24th ( I use the Flo app, diligently for years)
I am definitely in the TWW, today I’ve had light cramping, a little clear discharge, mild pain in both hips & full blown nausea/sour feeling stomach...
I’m trying to keep myself chill & not get my hopes up, it’s difficult especially when I’m sitting around feeling sick & cramping all day!
& congratulations on your BFP!

Thanks!

I know how hard it is to keep chill. It doesn't help that the TWW feels like two years! But those symptoms are definitely a good sign. Keep me updated! Would love to see you post a BFP in the upcoming days!

Mae1220 · Apr 29, 2021

Well here is a little update because I have no one else to go through all this small maybe stuff with besides my husband, and he has no idea and doesn’t know what to say lol he is just waiting for the results. still having clear discharge, blew my nose this morning and a good amount of blood which was something I experienced in the beginning with my DD... cramping as I type this, not hard & when I got in the shower my veins in my chest & breast are neon....
So I just picked up a box of FRER, considering testing first thing in the morning which would be a week until my expected period... but I don’t want to test too early again and get another negative so considering waiting until sat/sun morning.

WaterLilly · Apr 30, 2021

Mae1220 said:
Well here is a little update because I have no one else to go through all this small maybe stuff with besides my husband, and he has no idea and doesn’t know what to say lol he is just waiting for the results. still having clear discharge, blew my nose this morning and a good amount of blood which was something I experienced in the beginning with my DD... cramping as I type this, not hard & when I got in the shower my veins in my chest & breast are neon....
So I just picked up a box of FRER, considering testing first thing in the morning which would be a week until my expected period... but I don’t want to test too early again and get another negative so considering waiting until sat/sun morning.

Thanks for the update! And I know how you feel. I only had the hubby to talk to as well when we were TTC and as much as I love him, he is not the talking type.

Those seem to be very good signs but like you said, it might still be too early for you to test. In the meantime, you might be one of those lucky ones who gets that BFP early! I know I tested at 12DPO with a FRER and it was stark white. It was only until 14DPO I got my clear positive and that was using FMU with a FRER. I know how expensive those tests can be so the longer you can wait, the better!

Good luck :angel:

Mae1220 · Apr 30, 2021

I gave in & took one this morning, it was negative. I am gonna try and save the other test for next weekend... I don’t think it will last that long honestly but I’m gonna do my best. Now that I’m exactly a week out and still having crazy symptoms this mornings negative has got me saying stuff like we don’t know... I’m probably gonna start my period...it’s probably PMS. I’m a ping pong ball right now back and forth because everything is all maybes and could be.

it does give me hope though knowing you showed a negative 12DPO and a BFP 14DPO... I just need to chill I appreciate you & this conversation!

WaterLilly · May 4, 2021

Mae1220 said:
I gave in & took one this morning, it was negative. I am gonna try and save the other test for next weekend... I don’t think it will last that long honestly but I’m gonna do my best. Now that I’m exactly a week out and still having crazy symptoms this mornings negative has got me saying stuff like we don’t know... I’m probably gonna start my period...it’s probably PMS. I’m a ping pong ball right now back and forth because everything is all maybes and could be.

it does give me hope though knowing you showed a negative 12DPO and a BFP 14DPO... I just need to chill I appreciate you & this conversation!

I was much the same during my TWW. Especially since I didn't have any symptoms so I believed that I wasn't pregnant when I tested negative at 12DPO. In fact, even after my positive I still didn't feel pregnant because I had no symptoms. Now it's hitting me like a ton of bricks. So don't lose hope! You're not out until the witch shows!

Mae1220 · May 10, 2021

So I’m more confused than I was two weeks ago!
AF was due Friday no show.. had light ...brown spotting on Saturday, Sunday a little more still brown thought for sure AF would be showing up. Today so far a little heavier brown spotting and that’s it. I took a FRER on Saturday morning with 1st pee was negative.
I’m not cramping, brown spotting, and superrrr emotional like cried Sunday & I don’t cry lol
Anyone experienced anything similar?
TIA

Clarkecharm · May 10, 2021

Mae1220 said:
So I’m more confused than I was two weeks ago!
AF was due Friday no show.. had light ...brown spotting on Saturday, Sunday a little more still brown thought for sure AF would be showing up. Today so far a little heavier brown spotting and that’s it. I took a FRER on Saturday morning with 1st pee was negative.
I’m not cramping, brown spotting, and superrrr emotional like cried Sunday & I don’t cry lol
Anyone experienced anything similar?
TIA

Take another test hun. I suggest a FRER as it has a pink dye xx

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