I have a 19 year old sister, she's 20 in November.
She's not had a full-time job since she left School. Instead she works part-time at my nan's fruit & veg shop.
She's been with a really nice lad that I went school with for nearly 3 years, I thought that they were going to move in together this year. He's really nice, looks after her and basically she'll never get with anyone else that treats her as well as he does. She was going out with a right knob before him and stopped eating as he didn't like her eating (WTF!) so she ended up practically anorexic. Size 8 clothes were dropping off of her. Well she sorted out her love life and seemed to be maturing (apart from the job thing).
In the past month she's started hanging around with a right scummy cow that she hated when she was at school. The reason for this? She fancies her 16 year old brother who's at school doing his GCSEs!!! I think she's been cheating on her boyf with him and she's been acting like a right idiot.
My stepdad threw her out tonight (she still lives at home, pays £20 a week rent when she feels like it and treats the place like a hotel!) because she told my mum to p**s off and he hates her talking to my mum like it.
She hasn't taking her pill since last Thursday and when my mum said about it she took them all at once and now seems to think she wont get pregnant. She doesn't understand that she won't be protected for 14 days.
She's been round to see Ella 3 times since she was born
She buys her clothes but doesn't bother with us at all. She's my half-sister but we've always lived together.
Feel so angry at her. Just want her to sort her bloody life out!! To top matters my grandad probably has a year to live at most and has been in hospital for a few days where he's found out that he has lung and liver cancer (he's my stepgrandad - stepdads dad). The lad that she fancies caused my grandad several years of hell when they lived nearby him as they really are the neighbours from hell.
Grrrrrrrrrr!!
She's not had a full-time job since she left School. Instead she works part-time at my nan's fruit & veg shop.
She's been with a really nice lad that I went school with for nearly 3 years, I thought that they were going to move in together this year. He's really nice, looks after her and basically she'll never get with anyone else that treats her as well as he does. She was going out with a right knob before him and stopped eating as he didn't like her eating (WTF!) so she ended up practically anorexic. Size 8 clothes were dropping off of her. Well she sorted out her love life and seemed to be maturing (apart from the job thing).
In the past month she's started hanging around with a right scummy cow that she hated when she was at school. The reason for this? She fancies her 16 year old brother who's at school doing his GCSEs!!! I think she's been cheating on her boyf with him and she's been acting like a right idiot.
My stepdad threw her out tonight (she still lives at home, pays £20 a week rent when she feels like it and treats the place like a hotel!) because she told my mum to p**s off and he hates her talking to my mum like it.
She hasn't taking her pill since last Thursday and when my mum said about it she took them all at once and now seems to think she wont get pregnant. She doesn't understand that she won't be protected for 14 days.
She's been round to see Ella 3 times since she was born
She buys her clothes but doesn't bother with us at all. She's my half-sister but we've always lived together.Feel so angry at her. Just want her to sort her bloody life out!! To top matters my grandad probably has a year to live at most and has been in hospital for a few days where he's found out that he has lung and liver cancer (he's my stepgrandad - stepdads dad). The lad that she fancies caused my grandad several years of hell when they lived nearby him as they really are the neighbours from hell.
Grrrrrrrrrr!!
dont get me wrong she has now got herself a full time job n she has been there for nearly a year. its just everything else that goes with it. the boyfriend that is in prison the fact that she throws a tantrum like a 2yr old when she doesnt get her own way and things the whole world revolves around her 
she will be 20 next month she is still living at home with our parents doesnt pay them any money, they pay for everything for her, her car (brand new ford puma) pay her tax pay her insurance buy all her clothes etc they have paid for her to go on 2 holidays this year - 1 a week in spain and the other 2 weeks in thailand. the only thing she pays for is going out 
omg your sis needs to start living in the real world. I don't have a sis but my OH has a 19yr old son who lives with us and he is awful to live with, he needs to grow up big time!!
currently in prison for manslaughter 
