OH Confusion..

[DoulaJen]

Ladies! I need some advice.
Last week my amazing OH and I decided we were ready to try for our 3rd child.
We have 2 boys (8 & 2) and just feel its time. However both our kids were little 'surprises' and we have never TTC before.
I feel a bit worried that maybe OH is having second thoughts now. Whenever I mention BD or anything else pregnancy related you can see him jolt slightly. I dont knwo what to do!

Help x

 

[BabyBrain]

Just carry on as you always would hun. My OH always agrees to stuff and then frightens himself with the reality, I think it's cos their brain capacity runs for about 5 minutes at a time and they forget to agreeing to stuff lol xxxxxxxx

 

[VikkiR]

If it were me I'd have to talk to him, this decision is too big if only one of you is committed xxx

 

[DoulaJen]

Wanted to update you all.
We had a good chat and I'm so glad we did.
He explained that he wants this 100% but that he is giving himself the'Fear' when he thinks about all the logical things men think about. Money, Space etc.
He summed it up perfectly when he said "With Daniel I had no time to think whether the decision was right or wrong because you were already pregnant and it was happening either way"
Anyway we cuddled it out and I feel a million times better xx
Thanks to BabyBrian and VikkiR
x