yes i have my ex hubby, my sister use to follow him around alot if he was cutting grass for my mam and dad shed follow him then a couple of days i noticed he made the excuse to go to the shop down the street he never walks anywhere and sed to me he was going to walk to the shop (morrisons) baring in mind where my mum lives theres a coner shop, the next exuse he was taking the car for a wash both times he as with my sister and they sed they 'accidently' bumped into each other. we wentto see a house 3 bedroomed he sed ooo donna can move in here it got me thinking alot. we then stopped ith my sister for a while was meant to be a day he started doing things for her which he never did for me e were homeless at this point due to him having rent arrears. we went to the caravan for a week and my sister sent him a message on msn urrently at this point he couldnt be bothered to put the bed up. i new something was going on. so we ended up going back there as she requested ( i had a compensatiion claim which i received nearly 3 grand) i woke up one morning i found it wierd that for the weeks we were stopping there she slept on the floor with us right next to him she had a bedroom that morning i tried to get close to him iykwim she went out and he sed in his sleep i shudnt touch him there only donna is allowed o i punch him and sed what he sed nothing next morning i was boiling they were cuddling so i got a feeling something was going on checked his phone there as nothing there but on donnas was a picture of him and messages saying he loved her and that he didnt really fancied me a regretted marrying me i know its wrong to look i was angry i smashed her flat up ran out recked the car and ran down to my nanas she werent in so asked the next door neighbor i phoned my mum and she didnt belive me she did after a few days my dad nearly died i thought it was disgusting he went hunting for them both at the point but now they speak to my mum and dad and is hard when i go seemy mum i find it hard fair enuff i have a new partner have amy and another one on the way (ex isnt amy dad lol) ut still hurts as shes my sister sorry for the long story i wouldnt cheat on oh after being thru that to this day im still trusting him my sister and ex are still together